If you are in a long-distance relationship (LDR) or are alone at home and your loved one is away from you. Phone sex (call sex) is a super great way to be remotely intimate with another person.
Technology has also impacted relationships and made things easier. No matter how far you are from your beloved, you are always close to them, not only in ordinary moments, but you can also be intimate with them. If you use technology appropriately, then the distance between you does not matter much. Nor do you keep away from sexual activities due to space. Even though you've mastered the art of sexting, flirting in nude photos and texts, and fantasizing about being close to your sweetheart even over long distances, you're still far behind.
Usually, the next step is actual phone sex, or call sex can make your night more pleasant and colorful. And that steamy moment of yours is sure to deliver utterly incredible powerful orgasms to both of you from afar.
If you are wondering how is phone sex or how to do phone sex? Then surely this is going to be amazing for you. You do everything from saying sexy things over text to reading sexy stuff in the message box. And how do you involve one person in solo play, and what happens when you're sexting? How satisfied are you?
But phone sex or call sex will go far beyond sexting and provide a great experience. Because when you hear your partner's sensual, dirty voice in your ears, you are incredibly excited. And it's as if your partner is speaking in front of you about everything you hear or receive when you're intimate.
If you don't know what phone sex is, or you've never had phone sex before, you might find it a little weird and scary at first, but it isn't. And, if you do it right, It will surely provide an excellent and powerful orgasm to both of you as a gift.
So let's move on to know about a great phone sex session that is going to make you feel the ultimate pleasure:
What Exactly Is Phone Sex, And When Did It Start?
Phone sex is an excellent way for two people sitting far apart to get closer, get intimate, and receive and give an incredible orgasm. It is usually a sex-oriented phone call, during which both partners talk erotically and vulgarly to each other and arouse, masturbate, and ejaculate. It's all about voice; depending on your actions, your partner on the other side of the call excites you with dirty, sensual, and adult talk. In turn, with your voice, he gets himself excited.
The term phone sex was first used in the early 1980s when the phone was new and early. But then, it mainly referred to commercially available pre-recorded erotic audio messages, not the sensual talk on live calls. And unlike that, today, the meaning of phone sex has changed. Today, phone sex can refer to a broader range of communication, including phone calls, sexting, live video streaming with a boyfriend or girlfriend, or professional phone sex operators. Today many people are leading a busy lifestyle. And living long distances is their compulsion, but today's couples can rely on phone sex to keep that long-distance relationship (LDR) intimate and to keep the physical part of their relationship alive. While some people are lonely and need someone to be intimate with, and they can't be intimate with a real person for some reason, as an alternative they perform phone sex with a phone sex operator.
17 Important Tips For Having Phone S (Call Sex)
Phone sex is unique to every couple or potential partner and should reflect the interests and boundaries of all partners. If you've never had phone sex before, and are just starting, here are some super important phone sex tips that you should incorporate into your play.
1. Get Consent From The Partner In Front
Even if you're not physically touching each other, phone sex is a super effective sexual activity. Therefore, ensure you get your partner's enthusiastic consent before performing nude or indulging in anything sensual, dirty, or sexy. It's your duty and great job to respect your partner's boundaries, so if they're not ready, don't force them.
2. Make The Atmosphere Erotic
Even if you're not with your partner, it doesn't matter, and you have to ensure that your space is entirely private and free of distractions. Also, you would never want your erotic filthy voice to be heard by any family member or other person. Being imaginative is the key to the success of the best phone sex, and it's straightforward to activate when you're not distracted, distracted, or stressed. So it would be in your best interest to turn off notifications on your device (phone, tab). As well as locking the door, lighting a colored candle, turning on the lights, playing sensual audio at low volume, and making sure you have your favorite sex toys, lube, and everything else you might need.
3. Beginning With Foreplay
Indeed, you are far from your partner and can only hear their voice, but it does not matter, and foreplay can be done quickly through the phone too. You have to find the way. What are you wearing, what color is your bra, under your panties, between your thighs, is it wet, your breasts are feeling very tight to me, etc. These are all super sexy and classic lines that will not only make your partner horny, but you will be horny yourself with their response. To make them horny and take the foreplay a step further, you can even start it during the day or at the office, in which you send some sexy texts to your partner, And build up to a long phone sex session at night's rest. Keep in mind, get their consent before messaging them during office hours.
4. Use Headphones
If you are going to masturbate, your hands need to be free. If you hold the phone with your hand, then it will be challenging to participate in the play. So, use headphones so that your hand remains free for every activity. Also, headphones will have the advantage that no one else can hear your partner's voice, and you will stay personal.
5. Start With A Sexy Voice
Please start with a sexy story. Then moaning, hissing, and heavy breathing will make the atmosphere extremely sensual, move on, masturbation, and finally, orgasm and orgasm. [Read: About sex voices]
6. Send A Video Clip
If you clip while taking off your clothes, take off your inner clothes and get naked, and send it to your partner, it will certainly add to the excitement, and will make the atmosphere even hotter. The sensual video clip adds an exciting and super sensual dimension to your phone sex.
7. Changing Position
Even if you're on the phone, tell them which position you prefer, and ask them to change positions, even if it's just a fantasy. And also, ask your partner in which position she likes to have sex. Offering different perspectives about your body will excite your partner. [Read: Find your best sex positions]
8. Share A Sexual Fantasy
Incorporate everything from simple dirty talk to kinky role play to make phone sex fun and incredible orgasm, and simultaneously describe detailed scenarios. If you don't have a fantasy, make your imagination work by listening to specific things your partner wants or is doing with you.
9. Reading, Listening To Erotic Erotica Or Watching Porn Movies
Suppose you and your partner enjoy listening to podcasts, reading erotic erotica, listening to erotic erotica, or watching porn. In that case, you can incorporate this into your phone sex routine. You can read, hear, or watch them before starting the session. Reading or listening to erotica will make your phone sex hot.
Other Important Things To Note For Phone Sex
You need to know that you don't need to adopt any alternative sex personality or sex behavior to have phone sex. There's no shame in that phone sex is fun, safe, and rewarding to play with. Also, do not pressure your partner to change the normal sexual dynamics. If you prefer to be polite, you can ask them to instruct, and if you choose to be dominant, you have more romantic words; you can ask them to be polite.
10. Describe In Detail What You Are Doing
Describe what you are doing or feeling; it will warm your partner and you because phone sex is all about the details.
Talk about what you are wearing, what they are wearing, how you look, how you smell, what their body odor is, and describe yourself, how you are touching your limbs, everything in detail. And once you kick start the session, there's no need to be shy, and the more shameless you become, the more enjoyable your phone sex will be, so be assertive.
No one can see or hear you except you and your partner during a phone sex session, just as you are in a closed room, and it's all just about the both of you, so frankly, enjoy.
11. Mention Sex Memory Done In The Past
If the both of you have been intimate before, and you feel comfortable, mention those memories, and describe how you did, or how your partner was participating. Please describe in detail how she looked without clothes, how you felt when you saw her naked for the first time, and how amazing that particular part of her was.
12. If One Partner Is Unable To Have Phone Sex
Some people cannot talk dirty during phone sex; if so, respect the other partner's feelings, and focus on making them comfortable. Some people are a little hesitant in the beginning but still want to engage in phone sex. If so, try to find out whether they like to listen right now; they may get comfortable later and give you equal support throughout the session.
13. Mention The Amazing Sex You've Had I The Past
A memorable moment in all human beings' lives is remembered for life; you cannot forget it. For example, Have you ever had sex inside a car in a public place, or sex in the library, or sex in the school/college toilet, Or you may have had sex on a train or a plane while traveling, or you may have had sex in the bathroom of a restaurant, in the office, or a club. Also, maybe you've been in group sex or part of BDSM sex so that you can describe all those sexual scenarios. And it will surely make both of you hotter, and you will witness an incredible orgasm.
14. Keep The Volume Low Or Medium
Voice matters greatly during phone sex, and your loud voice can ruin the game.
So, you try to talk in a sensual voice, and a seductive voice is always slow. If your partner has trouble hearing, keep your voice moderate. It will also help that no third person listens to your voice, and you can take your phone sex session to the end without disturbance.
15. Sensual And Filthy (Dirty) Language
Even though you're on the phone, you're having sex, and it's only the dirty and sensual language that makes you hot and excited, so there's no need to hesitate or be shy. Nor is it wrong.
16. Use Of Sex Toys
Yes, this is what makes your phone sex or masturbation successful and gives you the gift of a great and powerful orgasm. Involve and use all partner sex toys during phone sex, whether male or female and enjoy real orgasm. It allows you to speak out about what you are doing, and your partner is excited.
17. After Play
Yes, just like you pay attention to aftercare after sex, you can do it even after the phone sex session. After ejaculation or orgasm, you calm down immediately. Your partner's mood may deteriorate, so say I love you to her. Ask them how they felt. Did they orgasm, or can you do better next time? And so on.
Conclusion
Note that any good phone-sex session can only be accomplished by your imagination and the performance of that imagination. And if you do it right, you can have the hottest, sexiest, and most pleasurable sex pleasure ever. Indeed you have communicated better and tried something new together. This unique experience will provide even better satisfaction during your next phone sex play. So now that you are the master and expert of phone sex feel free to enjoy the real orgasm through phone sex.
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